Archive for June, 2008

June 24th, 2008

New Eyes, Modified Eyes, or just plain old eyeball burning fun..

by Mike

Over the past weekend, I finally took the plunge. After days (well, mostly nights) of researching and coming up with various scenarios of horrible things that can happen as a complication, I finally accepted the risk(thank goodness I never was all that good at stats).

In an attempt to get rid myself of eye glasses, I played laser tag with my eyes. Good news is that the surgeon who was controlling the laser, keeping up with my unsteady eye, was 20,000+ surgery veteran (come to think of it, that should be about 40,000 eyeballs he has zapped with his laser gun) and result came out to be just fine. 5 days after the surgery, I am completely corrective eye wear free and enjoy the freedom.

I ended up tirelessly researching, “interviewing” different offices/doctors in the Toronto area (Bochner and TLC Toronto) and settled to go with Lasik procedure and TLC Toronto.

I chose TLC over Bochner because of two reasons.

First of this was the based on way the initial consultation was carried out.

At Bochner, I was the first appointment for the centre. After a customary and expected form fill out exercise that any kind of doctor’s office always runs you through and measurements using two devices, I ended up sitting and waiting 20 minutes for the Consultation specialist whom as far as I can tell just did not show up yet to the appointment she personally arranged with me. This Consultation specialist was the main contact point rather than the doctor (optometrist) throughout this visit and I sat there patiently waiting without any of the staff just casually chatting away with each other failing to inform me why I’m waiting for so long. Once the specialist finally showed up, she walked me into a her very nice office and showed me a computer generated illustration of the Lasik procedure itself and handed me an information package and casually pointed out to a price sheet saying, “Our price is $2700/eye”. When the question of when the last time I wore my contacts came up, the consultation specialist handling my case informed me minimum 3 days prior to the surgery is enough although they would like it if I was out of them for 6 days (which is much shorter than any of my own research of minimum 14 days requirement). After a brief evaluation by a surgeon (who was wearing a pair of glasses as I noticed), I was told I am an ideal candidate and they can schedule me in for a surgery in the next two days.

Umm, are you guys trying to pull a fast one on me? Well, that was that.

Next, TLC. I called their 1-800 number and got connected to a central call centre that handles all of the inquiry in North America. Not only did they give me the price over the phone, they also promptly booked the consultation for me without having to play an email tag I had to play with the other place.

The actual consultation itself was full 1 hour of examination both by a dedicated technician testing using machines used at Bochner plus a few more. Optometrist took over and discussed all the potential complications and side affects as well as suggesting I come back for a second evaluation session to make sure I am truly an ideal candidate since it has been less than 14 days since I wore contact lenses last. Second consultation actually lasted longer than the first because Dr. Kim (the optometrist) actually gave me a full eye examination (including dilating my pupils) that I have been custom to when seeing an optometrist. Now, I felt more like a patient who’s well being is considered first and the revenue of the centre second.

Ok.. I said two reasons. Second, my relocation. As my family will not be in Toronto for year to be able to go through the whole duration of required (and hence included in the price) follow up care, I asked both centres what I should do. Bochner suggested I fly back to Toronto and didn’t hint any form of price adjustment where as TLC suggested to visit their New York Manhattan location for the half of follow up (3 months, 6 month and 1 year after the surgery) and have voluntarily took off the cost associated with those three visits. Again, I felt that my well being was considered first before this particular centre’s revenue.

So.. with my choice made on TLC, I never even bothered to check out the third centre Herzig Eye Institute. Sorry Dr. Herzig, TLC was the lucky one this time.

Now, after the surgery, I can say that the surgery was an interesting experience.
Was it worth it? For me it was as my gamble paid off. Still have ways to go for a complete recovery but all in all, still not much I can complain about the process nor the result thus far.

Next up for the laser tag is Diane as she braves all the risks I had contemplated and calculated before the past weekend.

June 24th, 2008

cheese string

by Diane

cheese string을 처음 설마 먹을까?? 하며 찢어서 주었는데,,
너무나 좋아하는것! 한개는 너무 많은거 같아서 반개만 통째로~
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cheese를 이렇게까지 좋아할줄 몰랐다. – _-;;;;;;

June 23rd, 2008

Sarah야~ 머리 좀 만지지마~

by Diane

나랑 신랑 둘다 머리숱이 무진장 정말무진장 많은데 우리딸은.. 휑-
1월 12일에 태어나서 처음으로 머리에 핀을 꽂고 외출준비전에 찍은것~
기어다니고, 이도 아래 두개밖에 안났을때네..ㅋㅋ
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근데 머리에 치장만해주면 왜 오래 못가는지.. ㅠ.ㅠ
두갈래로 겨우겨우 없는머리 이쁘게 묶어줬는데, 휙- 빼버림.
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제일 작은사이즈의 고무줄로 세네번 돌려묶는게 얼마나 힘든데.
가뜩이나 머리숱도 없고 머리길이도 짧아서 더 힘든데..

핀이든 끈이든 빼놓고는 다시 또 해달라고하니 완전 @_@
제발~ 이쁘게 놔!두!세!요!!

June 22nd, 2008

steak @home

by Diane

처음으로 집에서 grill을 사용하지 않고 그냥 frying pan으로만 steak를 구워봤다.
결과는?? 아주 만족! 대만족!
신랑이 grape seed oil에 디어가며 구워 더 맛있는가..??ㅋㅋ
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steak 꽤 큰사이즈로 한덩어리 사와서 나눠먹은것인데도 양이 괜찮네~
밥이 많긴하다..ㅋㅋ

요즘 food channel들을 봐서 시도해본것이다.
신랑이 잘게 썰어 굽겠다는걸 내가 TV에서 본건 있어가지고..
통째로 구워야 제맛이지~라고하며 극구 말렸다.

굽는데 기름튀겨가며 더운날씨에 좁은 부엌에서 굽는 신랑이 좀 고생을 하긴 했지만
restaurant에서 먹는거 버금가게 맛~쬬~~오케 구워졌다는!
자주 해먹어줘야겠다. 신랑이 좀 힘들겠지만서도..^^;;

food channel들에서는 소금, 후추로 밑간을 하고 굽는데
우리는 Toronto에서 임시생활중이라 소금, 후추를 안사놔서
그냥 오일에만 구웠음에도 느므느므 맛있었다!!
그리고 steak 다구운후에 고기만빼고 그 국물(?)에 야채를 구웠는데~ 오우오우~
모.. 요리하는 사람들 다 그렇게들 하긴하더만.. 난 처음해봤으니. ㅋㅋ

근데 frying pan에 steak를 구울때는 well-done으로 구우면 겉이 새까맣게 타니까
medium으로 구운후 oven으로 옮기는것이 나을듯.
(후라이팬에서 굽다가 오븐으로 옮기는것도 food channel에서 배웠네. 나 완전 왕초보)

우리는 oven을 청소하지 않아서 medium-rare로 해서 먹었는데 맛좋았다.
피 싫어하는 사람은 oven을 사용하길~
신랑이 먹은 부분은 내것보다 더 두꺼워서 쓸을때 피가 약간 나오더라. 으~~

June 20th, 2008

Things of the past

by Mike

We had no idea what we are signing ourselves up for.Almost three years ago, three of us in this picture was all still unmarried.  I was the one facing the change in life status into the blessed life of being legally attached just a few hours after this picture was taken.

Fast forward and all three of us in the picture are now married, live in three different parts of the globe and all three with different stages in life.  Dan, is working in a bank (can you get any more stable?) owns a house and settling down to dig his roots into the ground.  Ben, just recently married, about to start a new exciting career in management consulting.  And of course there is me.. Uprooted my family and about to take my first real adventure in trying out a different city.

How sureal that simple time of 3 years can change so much.

June 19th, 2008

spinach를 첨으로 먹다.

by Diane

lunch time에 아빠가 take out 해온것중에 salad~
spinach만 쏙~ 골래먹는 Sarah.
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아빠가 다시 회사로 가고나면 엄마랑 놀때도있지만
혼자서두 잘놀아요~

LeapFrog에서 나온 fridge phonics set의 alphabet들을 저러고 논다. – _-;;
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finger puppet도 이제는 곧잘 손가락에 잘 끼고 놀고~
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소꼽놀이인지..
그릇인양 쭈~욱 나열하고 꼭 리모콘으로 찍어서 먹는 시늉을 한다.
꼭 리모콘이여야만 한다!!
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June 19th, 2008

Lasik

by Diane

신랑과 나 둘이 같이 라식수술을 캐나다에서 하고 가기로 정했다.
TLC라는 곳에서..
밴쿠버에두 지점이 있고 여기 토론토에도 있고 뉴욕에도 있다는 점이 맘에 들었다.
수술후 3개월 6개월 1년으로 첵업을 받아야하니 뉴욕에 있는 TLC에서 받으면 된다했다.

내일 신랑 수술하는 날이다!! 왜 내가 떨리지??!!
나는… 25일날 하기로 했다. 10일날 콘택렌즈를 써서 늦쳐졌다.. 딱 10분밖에 안썼는데.. -_-;;;
수술전 약2주정도 콘택렌즈를 끼면 안된단다. cornea 모양이 콘택렌즈때문에 변하기때문에..

지금 내 cornea 모양이 약간 아래,위에서 누른모양이란다. 한마디로 찌그러졌다..
근데..그게 콘택렌즈때문인지 원래 모양이 그런지 잘 모르니 다음주에 다시 검사해보자고 한다.
만약 심하게 눌린모양이라면 평생 콘택레즈쓰고~
눌린모양이 그리 심하진 않지만 약간 눌려있다면 lasik은 못하고 PRK라는 수술을 한다고 한다.

라식은 cornea를 살짝 들어올려 레이저치료후 닫는건데 PRK는 그냥 cornea를 깎는것이란다.
그래서 recover하는 기간이 더 길단다.. 6개월에서 1년이 걸릴수도 있단다. 무!섭!다!!

신랑이 라식에 관해서 리서치를 하면서 후유증 증세들을 찾은것들을 옆에서 같이 봤는데…
괜히 봤다!! 모르는게 약이라더니.. 휴-
콘택렌즈 쓰는건 안불편한데.. 안경쓰는게 불편해서 라식하고픈데.. 무섭네.
다음주에 검사하고 맘을 정해야겠군.

내일 신랑 수술 잘되길 기도하며~